While you’re giving him space, spend time with your friends to help you take your mind off of the breakup.
You might say, “I’ve been thinking about you. How have you been?” or “I really miss you. Can we talk?” If he asks for more space, say something like, “I totally understand. Just know that I care about you and I’m here if you change your mind. ” Give him as long as he needs before reaching out again.
“How’s your day going?” “Just wanted to say ‘Hi’!” “What are you up to?” Inside jokes. Memes. Pics of what you’re doing.
Maintain mutual friendships. Like or comment on his social media posts. Show up at his favorite haunts. Arrange group hangouts with mutual friends. Ask him to stay friends.
At the same time, you don’t want him to think you’re moving on to someone else. If he thinks he’s competing for your affection, he’ll totally ghost you. For this reason, don’t start going on actual dates—just stick to outings with friends.
If you have mutual friends, talk to them to see if they’ll drop some hints to him. You could also try hanging out with his friends so they realize you’re a good match for him.
Send him a photo of a happy memory with the caption, “Remember this?” Share memories on social media. While hanging out in a group, tell a funny story that happened while you were dating.
You might ask him to help you assemble a piece of furniture, plan a surprise party for a friend, or choose a wine. Think about what he helped you with when you were together for inspiration.
“You’re such a great listener. ” “You always made me feel so special. ” “You’re so creative. ”
You might ask him out to a concert, a museum, or a casual restaurant. You could also try going to a sports game or playing mini golf. If he seems open to it, you might suggest a romantic date, like dinner at a nice restaurant or a picnic on the beach.
Sporting a t-shirt related to one of his interests. Picking up one of his hobbies. Attending a convention for something he likes. Signing up for a class he’s taking.
Think about what he likes. If he’s into music, you might send him a new playlist you made for him. Pisces are one of the most romantic signs, so he won’t be able to resist a bit of romance.
Since Pisces is a mutable sign, he’s very flexible and tends to shift and change. He needs someone who can go with the flow with him.
Asking him questions about his dreams to show you’re interested. Talking about how you could fit into his future. Telling him about your own dreams.
“Since we broke up, you’re all I can think about. I miss having fun with you and talking about our dreams for the future. ” “You’re an amazing guy, and I don’t want to lose you. I really miss our long talks and your creative date ideas. ”
“I know we used to argue a lot, so I thought we could work on our communication skills. ” “I’ve realized we spent too much time together in the past. I think it’s good that we’re both becoming more independent so we could have a healthier relationship if tried again. ” “I feel really bad about what happened between us, so I’ve been working on myself. ”
“I keep picturing us sharing a porch swing, watching the sunset like you always wanted. ” “One day, we could get a beach house together and spend every evening walking along the shoreline. ” “I imagine the two of us traveling the world together, seeing all the famous sites and learning from locals. ”
